Mourning a Fallen Flirt

Posted by monique | Femdom Friends | Saturday 17 September 2011 4:36 pm

I have been in this industry for a few years but purposely did not make many friends as I know a business like this, you can not have too many in your circle. The few friends that I have who are on Niteflirt or just fellow femdoms who enjoy being in the BDSM lifestyle I don’t chat with often, but they are still some of the coolest chicks I’ve ever had the privilege to mingle with. Today however, is a sad day for me as I have just been given some devastating news. I’ve learned that a fellow domina, friend and flirt has passed away recently. I can not release her name per request but I felt it necessary to honor her in this blog post. I met her 3 years ago in a yahoo chat session that another fellow flirt orchestrated to bring a lot of us together just to talk shop, laugh about ordinary day to day events and just have a good time as we took a break from our slaves and boy toys. She was awesome from the start with a great sense of humor, funny as all hell and very crafty when it came to her slaves and submissives. We would chat almost everyday on yahoo, swap ideas or just browse boutiques online for shopping adventures. This particular femdom always told me, “Monique, you are so talented and fucking awesome. I can see you becoming a successful writer because your imagination and your way with words is just fucking great!” I would laugh it off and say “Ahh, you know us Geminis are naturally crazy and it comes in handy in most cases.” She knew about the book I wrote, being a published author and was totally behind me in pursuing this talent further. Even the last conversation that we had in March she reminded me how witty, and talented and gifted I am. How I would be such a success when I finally step into the Literary world. She parted with a tribute to a very special person in my life as it was their birthday that day. I noticed for a while I had not seen her on my yahoo for a while but I know there had been times where I disappeared for a while so I thought maybe she was taking a break. Now I learn today that is not the case. Words can not express the sadness and anguish that I feel over her passing. When I say this woman was fucking awesome, she truly was. And not just as a domina, but as a strong woman all around. She had the heart of gold and at times would let me vent about my personal life challenges and had some of the best sound advice I could have asked for. But as another Flirt told me, she is in a better place because Lord knows, it can be Hell on Earth. And I know she wouldn’t want me to cry over her passing. Her words to me would be, “Monique hush. We’re bad bitches. Bad bitches don’t cry, cut the soft shit out.” So I won’t shed a tear. I will remember her and honor her as she deserves to be. And I will go on as the “fucking awesome chick” she always described me as….

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