What the Fuck is up with the Ebony Section on Niteflirt???

Posted by monique | I'm just saying | Tuesday 8 March 2011 1:58 am

I normally don’t blog about things outside of my own personal gain and my own personal enjoyment as well as what’s new with my site, clips4sale and kinkbomb. But tonight I feel a need to step outside of the ordinary, take a stand atop my soap box and ask a very serious question: WHAT THE FUCK IS UP WITH THE EBONY SECTION ON NITEFLIRT??? Something has definitely changed in the way money is made on Niteflirt since I first stepped on the scene in 2008. And though I will never knock anybody’s hustle, I will knock using illiteracy, lack of class and racial degradation as a tool to make money when there are a PLETHORA of other ways to do so. I don’t normally scan the categories anymore. Since bidding is no more and the bulk of my money no longer comes from Niteflirt but from other sources I figure what’s the point. But since starting a new profile and placing myself in the Ebony category plus the business that boomed on the account when I turned my phone lines on I figured i would check my placement. As I’m scanning through damn near every other listing had some form of “slang” or chicken scratch chicken head name with a number instead of a word, slut this whore that “nigger slave whore” bang my big blakk booty…what in all the hell? Chick spelled CHIK. Suck for your buck spelled SUK4YABUCK WHAT THE FUCK LOL! And let’s not go to the pictures. Yes I’m coming at some of you bitches HARD!! If you are going to take pictures please, no pictures in a room that is clearly dirty with clothes thrown all over the floor, shit jacked up on a dresser. Please PLEASE, you can get a pack of Outre 12 inch Yakki for $19.99. I should NOT be able to see nappy edges hanging out of what is supposed to be a lace front wig boo. That’s a no no. And the braids…I can understand wanting that sister girl look but please remember who the main clientele is! To some this may seem like a pointless rant. And I’m sure a few will deem this as hating. Trust me boo, don’t even entertain the thought. I’m not hating that ass I’m trying to educate that ass, bestow some class on that ass and turn your business into flash instead of a stop cop and bop snatch and grab. LOL!

I treat marketing in phonesex (whether you’re on the BDSM and Fetish side of things or the Vanilla side of things) like I would treat marketing myself for my next boyfriend. Do I want a cheap man? Hell no! Do I want a 2 pump chump that will only come around when I throw a crumb his way (ie: a free minute) or when he has a couple bucks left in his account and is bored so he figures he’ll spend it on Bone-queesha. Motha f–ka PLEASE! Do I want someone who sees me as an option or the number one priority. Depending on how you value yourself maybe you don’t mind being an option. But I’m the NUMBER ONE PRIORITY. Don’t get me wrong .99/min isn’t bad. I came in on a content account at .99/min and made bank (at least back then in my eyes) But then I started noticing that the very guy who would spend 6 hrs on the phone with me at .99/min was spending the same amount of time on the phone with girls at 2.99/min and higher. I learned quick that if it don’t make dollars it don’t make sense. Kudos to Lovely Miss Kytten and The Goddess Leesa for teaching me to working smarter not HARDER!

But back to the point of this blog. These black chicks don’t need to sell themselves short to make SALES. If you present yourself as a hoodrat, you’re going to make hoodrat change. If you present yourself as an uneducated, section 8 phone smut, well…need I say more?

That’s my rant for the night. That shit really boggled my mind-stretch marks, busted weaves, trashy rooms, broken english, like what the hell??? This is still a business!!! Treat it as such! SMH Niteflirt used to be so classy. What happened???

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